One day I performed the Sunnah during the Friday prayer. Suddenly a kid was passing in front of me, the kid’s father was sitting next to me. He did not stop the child!! Instead, he pulled his into his arms. The child was very eager to go home. Mr. Khatib is giving a very important speech. I was having a hard time listening. I tried to calm the child several times. But the child was not calming down at all. His father also became very upset at one point. Meanwhile, the child felt some pain and immediately started crying in the mosque. He is not stopping in any way! At one point the man was forced to leave the mosque with his child and could not offer the Friday prayer.

On the other hand, when I entered the mosque it was raining heavily outside. As I entered another man entered with me. Holding a child of the same age. The child was very quiet on admission. Somehow the kid was calm and polite as long as he was in the mosque.

Then I thought that two children of the same age but two different behaviors could be the reason?

In no time my thoughts were over. I realized that the first man never prayed five times and did not bring his baby boy when he came to the mosque because the baby was not used to coming to the mosque.

And the second man who entered the mosque with me. The man prayed five times and when he had time, he brought his baby boy to the mosque. So the child becomes familiar with the place and gets used to coming to the mosque. And because of this the baby boy was very quiet and polite.

The point to note here is that two children are of the same age and two children use the same place differently.

Can you tell what could be the reason??

The reason for this is one, family education they are behaving exactly as their family has taught them.

This is why I say, the way you walk on, your child will also walk on that way. If not, you teach him well.